jam, it's still wrong. kahit balibaliktarin mo ang mundo... mali pa rin. really, it won't feel right once you give in to it, lalo na when the time comes na you have to face the consequences. and no, this isn't one of those damn-the-consequence thingies.
Sometimes you need not dwell on things too much. Dark clouds over your head can totally engulf you and the only light of hope you're still seeing may flicker away with it. Don't fret... you'll be fine.Ü
So right Jam. Look where my irrational heart lead me. :)
As for fretting, the more you fret the more you tax your brain making it bog down and thus letting your heart get the better of you. Let it go. Distract yourself.
Hahaha, one of the refrains of my life. What I've learned? 1. I totally agree. It's still wrong. 2. So leave it. Amputate yourself! (Figuratively, of course) I'll email you an excerpt from "The Great Divorce" by C.S. Lewis
Morally what you think is wrong is really wrong, no matter what other people may say. We have our own standards, not just because of the Christian doctrines, but because our free will is ought to be used in the way we know that is best for the human kind. Technically, if someone labels it correct because, as you have said, can feel so right, it is STILL NOT, because deep inside you are bearing some guilt, and you know for a fact that it is wrong.
You should remember, we are not judged by our beliefs (religion) but what is good (mabuti). To quote from my friend, hindi naman importante kung ano religion mo, basta mabait ka. Well, I contradict that mabait (kind) is way way different from mabuti.
In that case, maybe, what you know is wrong..
ReplyDeleteWell said Nikki.
ReplyDeletebut i know for a fact that it is wrong...
ReplyDeleteyou think you know for a fact that it is wrong.
ReplyDeletebut it is! but it is!
ReplyDeleteYou devil's advocates leave Jam alone! :p
ReplyDeleteBecause Jam... sometimes people like Nik, Cel and Frank are right but also because sometimes its just the way it is.
Solution: "Vulcanize" yourself. Hehe term ko lng yun. Be logical.
But then look who's talking....
something that's wrong but feels so right is still something wrong. there should be no grey areas there to delve in.
ReplyDeletebut then, that's just my opinion. ;)
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btw, 2nd dan na ang christie monteiro ko sa tekken 5! yey!
han: it's quite hard when the rational mind fights against the irrational heart. blech! (this thought originaly came from jas.Ü)
ReplyDeleteives: yep, i agree. it's still wrong. crapu!
di na umakyat bryan ko. 2nd dan pa rin sya...
Want better opinions? Elaborate!
ReplyDelete:p
jam, it's still wrong. kahit balibaliktarin mo ang mundo... mali pa rin. really, it won't feel right once you give in to it, lalo na when the time comes na you have to face the consequences. and no, this isn't one of those damn-the-consequence thingies.
ReplyDeleteeh masarap eh. at tao lang tayo. Ü
ReplyDeletebitin sa chismis, jam. elaborate.
niks: secret! >_<
ReplyDeletefaye: you know me, i won't give in. it's just that it's so depressing... T-T
Sometimes you need not dwell on things too much. Dark clouds over your head can totally engulf you and the only light of hope you're still seeing may flicker away with it. Don't fret... you'll be fine.Ü
ReplyDeleteanony: it just wouldn't be me if i didn't... :p
ReplyDeleteSo right Jam. Look where my irrational heart lead me. :)
ReplyDeleteAs for fretting, the more you fret the more you tax your brain making it bog down and thus letting your heart get the better of you. Let it go. Distract yourself.
Hahaha, one of the refrains of my life. What I've learned?
ReplyDelete1. I totally agree. It's still wrong.
2. So leave it. Amputate yourself! (Figuratively, of course) I'll email you an excerpt from "The Great Divorce" by C.S. Lewis
iba talaga pag ambiguous yung post. comment-whoring!
ReplyDeleteAmbiguous.
ReplyDeleteAnyway..
Morally what you think is wrong is really wrong, no matter what other people may say. We have our own standards, not just because of the Christian doctrines, but because our free will is ought to be used in the way we know that is best for the human kind. Technically, if someone labels it correct because, as you have said, can feel so right, it is STILL NOT, because deep inside you are bearing some guilt, and you know for a fact that it is wrong.
You should remember, we are not judged by our beliefs (religion) but what is good (mabuti). To quote from my friend, hindi naman importante kung ano religion mo, basta mabait ka. Well, I contradict that mabait (kind) is way way different from mabuti.
Hi Jam. It's still wrong. I thought you were already decided about this? (if this is what I think it is).
ReplyDeleteGenerally speaking, it's up to you. If you seriously feel you won't give in because it's worth the whole world even if you feel it's wrong, go ahead.
Quoting Richard Feynman:
"If I do this, what will happen?" -scientific question
"Do I want that to happen?" - moral question
Jenoa, I don't know where your irrational heart led you. You're OK, great even.
Armi, I'm interested about CS Lewis The Great Divorce. Email mo din ako :)
anonymous above = angel
ReplyDeleteHonestly..
ReplyDeleteGUSTO KONG MALAMAN KUNG TUNGKOL SAAN 'TO!!!
:p
armi: thanks for the forward. i've included my *thoughts* about the read. hehehe.Ü
ReplyDeleteards: mabait naman ako e... pag tulog. hehehe.Ü
ange: yep, am already decided. it's just so so so hard... T-T
niks: lol-lol-LOLZ.ÜÜÜ
Aha! Alam ko na para makalimutan mo. Lunch date tapos basahin mo yung A Brief History of Time.
ReplyDeleteSana magwork. Hehehe.
ange: tingin ko di ko na makakalimutan e... T-T
ReplyDeleteOws? Kahit meron nito?
ReplyDeleteYun Ange! I think you got the solution!
ReplyDeleteAnd Jam if that still doesn't work then you got it baaad. Time to go back to Armi's suggestion, amputate yourself.
Or maybe we guys should stop commenting kasi lalo mong di makakalimutan! :)
ange: kung bibigyan mo ako... baka siguro...Ü hahaha!Ü
ReplyDeletehan: ang hirap hirap hirap hirap hirap hirap ng amputation... T-T
nakakatulong naman yung mga comments nyo e. before di ko inisip yung *amputation*. pero ngayon i'm thinking if i should...
Amputation? Magpapaka-eunuch ka na?! :-o
ReplyDelete:p
oo niks, kaya nga nahihirapan ako e. pero oks lang basta maging katulad ako ng idol kong si jem... hahaha!^___^
ReplyDeleteHOOOYY!
ReplyDeleteandaya mo angel!*lolz* bakit nung ako may problemang ganyan sinabihan mo lang ako na get over her, samantalang si jam...:P
ReplyDeletejam, third dan na ako! yahoo!
i hope hindi ka pa napuputulan ng kung ano dahil dito...:D
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