my "sermon" to a friend through net send:
personally i don't care what others people think of my actions as long as i know i'm doing what is right and i know that i'm not stepping on other people's shoes along the way.
it's up to you if you decide to do want you want. but of course you must take responsiblity for your actions and always be prepared for the repurcussions of such actions.
let's not be hypocrites. at the end of the day, all we want is to get what we *think* that would make us happy.