(un)fairness

"fairness us a concept that holds only in limited situations. yet we want the concept to extend to everything, in and out of phase. from snails to hardware stores to married life. maybe no one finds it, or even misses it, but fairness is like love. what is given has nothing to do with what we seek." -haruki murakami

weird?

things are weird because

a. i am weird
b. you are weird
c. we are weird
d. individually, we are not weird but together we are weird